Today is the fifth Tuesday of the month, which means that my answer to this heartfelt letter is available exclusively to my Patreon patrons.
Revising is as individual as writing. There's no wrong way to do it, and there are no hard and fast rules about how it goes.
Romantic tension is one of those things that's often better managed during revisions, because it's all about pacing.
Work with your innate writing process rather than against it, and you'll be much happier and more productive.
I'm so proud of my little site, and so grateful to all of you for helping to keep it going.
The person you injured is you, in the sense of costing yourself the time and effort of repairing the problems with your work, and the person you need to apologize to is you.